I’m about to share stimulating ideas about fingers, stroking, and positioning—related to stitching, that is, not, ahem, anything else. So read on, as this quick article is Safe For Work. Today’s message is simply this: let your finger or needle stroke your threads as you stitch. Your needlework will look much better for it. I’ve even got a fabulous-looking tool to help you stroke in style. Read on.
What do your stitches look like?
I’ve met needleworkers who insist every stitch—on the front of their work and on the back—is PERFECT. I’m also friends with stitchers who could care less which direction their top stitch goes, or what the back of their stitching looks like. Probably, though, most of us fall somewhere in between: we want our stitching to look good, but not be judged for quality. It’s supposed to be a relaxing hobby, after all.
There is one sure way to get prettier stitches, and that is to make sure the thread lays smoothly and neatly on your fabric. This applies to any thread, but especially when stitching with ribbons or multiple strands of floss. It also applies to any stitch, including Cross Stitch, or the longer stitches like Satin, Herringbone, Rhodes, etc.
So how do you get prettier stitches?
- Slow down and pay attention to how your threads are laying on the fabric. This is positioning: WATCH your thread as you stitch to see if it’s twisting, and INTENTIONALLY lead it to fall properly into place. I know it’s hard to slow down, but think of it as meditation, staying present, in the moment…the moment your beautiful thread makes a colorful imprint on your fabulous fabric.
- Use your finger, your stitching needle, or a laying tool to “stroke” the threads. Stroke them into submission. That is, rub them until they get long and straight. Ahem, well, you get the idea. Stroke your thread as you complete your stitch to make sure the strands lay parallel or the ribbon lays flat. This gives you maximum light reflection, a smooth stitch, and gorgeous result.
What’s a laying tool?
Laying tools have been used by needleworkers for centuries, and there are many kinds, from handmade wooden stilettos to thick blunt needles. Get a few and see which fit your style of stitching. It may feel awkward at first, but with practice, using a laying tool will become second nature. I suggest this one: a Trolley Needle, in part because it’s so awesome looking (Finger sword? Kung-fu stitching? Edward Needlehands?). Also, however, it fits right on your finger or thumb to be ever-ready. Practice with it, use it on different fingers, adjust the fit as needed, and it will become automatic in no time. Just don’t poke anyone with it. Practice safe stroking—of your threads. I’m talking about threads here, ahem.
Your projects, your threads, and your time are valuable, so make your stitches the best they can be. It just takes a little time, attention, positioning and stroking of your threads as you stitch. You’ll be ecstatic at the results.